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But I can see how it’s effective with younger girls.
Have you managed to avoid much awkwardness with it?
That’s fine if you consider what role they’re trying to fill with finding a guy (you). 23 and under is sketchy: If she’s really that hot and social but she’s looking for a guy online, she’s probably got issues. All I’m saying is that if you’re looking for a relationship and not just to be somebody’s hookup, stick to the 24 (preferably 25) and up. I’ve had similar experiences as Boss, and I’d like to offer the other obvious form of communication after the three exchanged messages (yes I like to have a few messages first too, just to get comfortable with the girl and allow her to feel comfortable with me too), and that’s the cell phone number.
Might seem a little bold, but this day and age in the 20somethings crowd a text message goes a long way.
With online dating you have three tools: the picture, the message and the profile.
If you’ve been writing e-mails back and forth for the last four weeks, you’re building this up to be something more than it is and you’re going to be disappointed. If she’s not meeting me after the third message, I’m polite but I move on.
A few tips Finally, Set Your Expectations Correctly You’re a guy on a website full of guys trying to land a date.
The average response rate I got was around 20% and that’s considered really good. One funny thing I learned last year: Although you are better off tailoring the initial e-mail to the woman’s profile, you can get away with a more generic message if your pics and profile are solid.
), or that I like making pizza from scratch, or that “I’m very expensive” (you gotta read the post all about that one).
It’s also great to ask a question at the end of your message- this starts a conversation and gives something to respond to. This is me doing my part to make that world a reality.