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The male ego likes to know a woman can be attracted to him.The male ego also does not want to be rejected by sending hundreds of outbound emails to women each week. Men also secretly wish a woman would write a real email to them instead of sending a wink or flirt, which they view as passive aggressive. Whether you are a match or not, you are taking control over your dating life and may have the opportunity to meet the man of your dreams. Men often have to write 50 emails to get perhaps two responses.
Why do I believe a woman can and should send the first email while still allowing a man to be the man and pursue her?
Sure, male biology is accurate and men do love the chase, so I am not telling you to keep chasing him after you send an initial email.
You must shift the digital dating process and allow him to pursue you after initial contact.
Any decent woman online has an email box that looks a little something like this…
She’ll have 50 messages from men on the same site you’re signed up for.