Dating success tips
• Use the Power of Charm Remember how powerful your smile can be, and use your eye contact and ask questions to keep the conversation flowing.
Think about what interests you about your date, and show interest in his or her opinions, experiences and activities.
Be complementary whenever possible, and respond intelligently to whatever is said to you.
• Have Fun Don’t Get Too Heavy Keep your date light and easy, and have a good time.
One of the easiest ways to lose your objectivity and balance in this is to let yourself worry about what your date thinks about you.
I call this “getting into your date’s head.” If you spend your time essentially trying to look at yourself through your date’s eyes, guessing what he or she is seeing when looking at you, or hearing when listening to you, you’ll miss what’s really happening.
You have a responsibility to pay attention so you know what YOU think of your date. Offer your comments on the event or the restaurant, and ask your date what he or she thought of it, for future reference. • Do tell the truthdon't lie, but also don't share too much too soon.
Continuing to see someone who is rude, thoughtless or narcissistic is simply asking for a relationship problem.Romance [email protected] and has hosted "The Psyche Deli: delectable tidbits for the subconscious" a weekly hour long radio show.She is an online expert, answering relationship questions at Personals, as well as a Redbook Love Network expert and APsychology [email protected] columnist for First for Women. Tessina guests frequently on radio, and on such TV shows as [email protected], ALarry King [email protected] and ABC news.Everyone seems to be in a hurry today, but if you rush into a relationship, you’ll create big problems for yourself.Starting off on the right note will make many things easier later.