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Marriage counselors are now recognizing the importance of including issues of cybersex during marriage counseling.One of the relevant issues being considered is, ‘does cybersex represent infidelity? You are deepening the misunderstanding by using cyber or cybering instead of cybersex.For me, it was the crowing touch to a lifelong sex addiction, ranging from magazines, videos, DVDs, strip clubs, prostitutes, online pornography, and ultimately swingers sites and anonymous sexual encounters.Online sex of ANY kind -- porn sites, swingers sites, adult chat rooms, personal ads in craigslist.com, phone sex -- is incredibly addictive and life altering.But, make no mistake about it, it can create havoc in your life.Potential areas of harm include: personal neglect, compulsive preoccupation with checking and clicking, depression, and marital discord.
On the other hand, it is a ground for exploration, experimentation in the safe environment and learning for some. Which leads us to the conclusion that while safe in one area (STD's and pregnancy) cybersex can be dangerous in other (addiction and neglecting the sex activities away from computer). If your life is completely out of control, you might check out the Meadows programs at have several fantastic treatment facilities for all kinds of sexual addictions. I think there are many people who have cybersex that have no intention of ever meeting the person they're having cybersex with.
And yet, I've never experienced "personal neglect" nor "depression" as a result of this.
Cybersex can be practiced in moderation just like alcohol when it comes to "drinking socially" and safely.
I strongly disagree with people who claim that cybersex is "unhealthy" or "harmful".
For married people, yes, of course it's a question of fidelity. If you meet the person face-to-face, the STD dangers rise - but that isn't cybersex anymore then, is it?